Celebrants: Signatures on the Decorative Marriage Certificate (Australia)

We all used to let anyone sign this certificate for the first 30 years of the program. Apart from the necessary signatures of the bride and groom and the two chief witnesses and the celebrant, sometimes the parents, the groomsmen, and the bridesmaids would sign on the front. In doing so, they felt of real significance and part of the ceremony. Quite often all the guests were asked to sign their names on the back of the certificate, preserving a precious memory for the bride and groom.

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Then you-know-who invented, out of that falsely legal head of hers, another new baseless rule and added it to the pile of legal trivia that now oppresses the marriage celebrants of Australia.

New, inexperienced celebrants somehow got to teach OPD. Some (not all) seemed to love these newly invented rules and seemed to love showing off their recently created knowledge with great authority. The end result? In doing so, they killed off that little bit of joy that people gained by being a little bit more part of the event.

The dictum of the law is “in dubiis libertas“—in doubtful things, freedom.
There is a law that says two of the witnesses must sign—but where, oh where, is there a law forbidding other witnesses to sign?
The real issue here is taking away from people the joy of looking at their marriage certificate and remembering who the key people were.

The signing was a dignified, joyous moment—and sometimes that wonderful wedding singer was able to sing three songs instead of two. The singers also felt more part of the event.

Another observation. If you ring an inexperienced public servant in the AG’s office and ask the question—”Can I do this?”—to cover their behind, the safest thing they can say is “No.” (My observation is that they do not do any course of study; just like most celebrants of the you-know-who era, they pick it up as they go—learn from their mistakes—good old victim-based learning).

I hope (I urge) everyone who reads this far also to read the never-ever-ever taught Section 48 of the Marriage Act – http://www.collegeofcelebrancy.com.au/pages4/Sect_48-Marriage_Act.html -. It is the most valuable part of the Marriage Act. It is a freeing experience. A good understanding of it will help a celebrant concentrate on what our real and original task is—enriching the culture with ceremonies that keep getting better.

3 thoughts on “Celebrants: Signatures on the Decorative Marriage Certificate (Australia)

  1. Thks Dally. I truly agree there must be two witnesses to sign the commemorative marriage certificate but if the parents want to witness their presence why not allow them to.
    By gracing their presence, the couple will have beautiful memories down the lane when they look back and see mom and dad’s signatures.
    Imagine the joy it will bring on their silver anniversary and the center of attraction this certificate will be.

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